Do you ever feel like life is just passing you by. When you come across interesting ideas or opportunities, what does that little voice inside of your head tell you about them?

Does that inner voice in your heard say things like “You could never do that,” “You don’t have the (time, money, know-how, resources to achieve this goal”? When you see other people getting things done, realising their dreams… even doing small things that you yourself might never consider doing…

What do you think about these people?

Do you compare yourself to them?

How do you feel when you compare yourself to them?

Do you feel jealous? 

Or do you feel motivated by what they have achieved?

Do you really believe that they accomplish what they set out to because they have greater access to resources, opportunities, support and help than you do? Thoughts like the ones above commonly describe what is known as a limiting mindset. The perception is that we are limited in what we can do.

And yet…

think of all the incredible, mind-boggling achievements that some people manage to rack up in their lifetime.

The difference between those folks and likely most people you’ve met in your life, is that instead of dwelling on their own limitations, the doers and makers choose to focus on what they can accomplish and how to go about it.

And, Did you notice the word CHOOSE in there? It’s your choice how to live. If you’ve been sitting in the passenger’s seat of life and you want to move over and take the wheel, guess what?

You can absolutely do this. The first step to changing your life really IS changing your mindset. This is where new habits come in changing the way you think about things and how you want to achieve things in life. 

In this case that means instead of having a limiting mindset, you’ve got to shift into expansive thinking.

“I can’t” becomes “Why not?”

“I don’t know how” becomes “How can I?”

“I’m not sure” becomes “How can I find out?”

“This is all my (or your) fault” becomes “What can I do differently next time?”

“I can’t afford it becomes ‘How can I afford it”

You can absolutely do anything you set your mind to it takes time to shift your mind. You have to start with believing in yourself. This is what people you see have become successful in their life they believed in themselves.

And, remember I believe in you much love xx

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