By Counting Your Blessings

How often do you count your blessings at the end of your day? Not many people count their blessings or realise how much goodness they have in their life.

There is one really easy way to get started on a gratitude practice is to make a habit of counting your blessings both morning and night. It is a good idea to write down your blessings so you can look over them at the end of the week. You will be amazed how much it will lift your spirits.

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Simply taking a few minutes when you wake up in the mornings and before you go to bed in the evenings is enough to begin cementing this new practice into your routine.

Don’t say I’ll do it tomorrow or next week start the habit now.

Start Small

Easing into any habit is usually the best approach. By making it easier on yourself, you’ll be more inclined to continue moving forward.

So, try not to put too much pressure on yourself to come up with grand examples of gratitude when you’re just starting out. Just appreciating the bed where you’re starting and ending the day can be something to add to your initial list. Sometimes simply recognizing a tiny blessing can have a big impact.

Add It On

A helpful method for remembering your new gratitude habit is to add it on to your existing routine. Whatever you normally do in the morning and night, be sure to include a few minutes to think of what makes you feel fortunate. For example, if you have tea every morning, this would be a good connection to make. Sitting down to tea will soon become a reminder to contemplate on your three things.

Create Visual Reminders

If you find yourself forgetting to do it or skipping out on your new task, add some visual cues to your environment. Post-it notes are great for this. Stick one on your nightstand. Add another to your bathroom mirror. Technology comes in handy for reminders, as well. Set an alarm on your phone so that you don’t leave the house or fall asleep without taking time to consider what makes you feel thankful.

Turn It Around

You can also try the opposite. Turn complaints around into something positive. Maybe you wake up with a sore back and don’t want to get out of bed. It may seem obvious, but reminding yourself that you’re in overall good health and that you have a safe place to sleep can do wonders for your outlook.

Try to find the silver lining. It really works.

Take Notes

A good habit can be jotting things down during the day as they happen. It only takes a few seconds to make a note of what you feel grateful for in that moment. You can reflect on it later during your quiet bedtime routine. Hopefully, you now see how getting into the habit of recognising the good thing in life really isn’t all that difficult.

A few small changes to your routine and you’ll find it’s actually quite easy to implement this practice.

And, remember I believe in you XX