Life can sometimes feel deterministic and limiting. Yet, most times, the fault is entirely our own. We place limits and boundaries for ourselves that we never bother to step out of our comfort zone.

Thus, we feel trapped in a cycle of pretty mundane things, menial routines. We have learned to let the word “NO” truncate our dreams.

We say NO to a lot of things that we become trapped in the same prison throughout our lives.

There is however exhilarating freedom in becoming a YES person.

When we talk about a YES person, we do not mean becoming a cowering, eager-to-please-the-others person who agrees to everything just because he wants to avoid confrontation.

A YES person, in our context, is that person who is bold and daring enough to embrace life and opportunities. In other words, a person who is willing to enjoy a meaningful, fulfilling life.

It is not very easy crossing the border from being a NO person to being a fearless and dauntless YES person. It takes some practice and courage.

Let us then explore how one can be able to turn their lives around and start fully embracing the gift of life.

Learn to embrace change: do not be afraid of it

We enjoy the comfort of the familiar. Most people take refuge in routine. A world of routine is easily defined. But routine is usually an enemy of progress.

For us to fully enjoy the full spectrum of what life has to offer, we have to learn to embrace change. Do not be afraid of new things.

Say YES to change. Fear of failure or the unknown is what drives many people to say NO when opportunities and adventures are presented to them.

If you are to be a YES person, if you are to fully discover your potential, calling and what life has to offer, you have to get rid of the fear of new things. Remember, the most awesome of things usually lies just beyond your comfort zone.

Be positive

Some of us have mastered the art of brooding. We always contemplate and dwell on the worst-case scenario.

Our lives are haunted by all the bad things that can happen. In the end, most people are trapped in the prisons of their minds.

It is really hard for a negative person to become a YES person for they are scared of all the cascading vicissitudes that can result from a certain venture.

They can never see the good side of things so they are trapped in stasis. Be positive. See the good in the ventures and adventures you are going to partake.

Be it love, or a job offer, just see what learning opportunities and memories you will create. Being positive is a key element of becoming a yes person.

Stop giving excuses. Do not procrastinate

Procrastination and excuses are the usual euphemisms of saying NO. We tend to hide behind justifications and excuses. In the end, most people never really get to have anything done because they convince themselves they have plausible reasons to not do certain things.

A YES person does not need to hide behind excuses. They never procrastinate and they are eager to jump into action.

So, starting today, why don’t you begin to shun the habit of hiding behind far-fetched excuses? When opportunity knocks and you are unsure, say YES. This will open doors to a magical life.

Be curious

A YES person is usually driven by curiosity. Those who are not curious never get the urge to explore other narratives and opportunities.

The world around us is full of things you do not know and things you have not yet experienced. Make it your aim to let curiosity pull you to explore things that you have not yet seen or experienced.

Never seize to grow and learn, no matter how old you are. As the writer, Tolkien, once said, “Still around the corner, there may wait for a new road or a secret gate.” Let this drive you to be always on the lookout for more things to say YES to.

Start with the little things

There are those who, before taking a swim, want to dip the toe first to test the temperature of the waters. And some more daring ones just dive.

If you are the former, start by saying YES to small things: baby steps, as we call them. Learn to embolden yourself with each YES you pronounce.

With time, you will see how liberating and exhilarating it is to embrace the new things and opportunities that come your way.

Start today. Say YES to that thing that you have been putting off. Take that step towards that engagement you have not been sure of.

The road to becoming a YES person is made of these small little steps.

So, do not be scared. Learn to embrace that giddy feeling that comes from venturing into the uncharted.

Do not let fear and excuses hold you back. Being a yes person will help you attain a very deeper level of fulfillment in life. Do not hesitate.

Just say YES!

And, remember I believe in you

much love

Ronni xx